You're right Hollie - it's quite an uncomfortable situation...one can't help but get upset and then we know it's a moment of grief and the conflicting emotions just make for an awful mess.

(By the way - this wasn't the story that I was working on that made me think of what you are having to do...it's another that's only been written in my head LOL)

Thanks, kind friend for the loving support...still feeling the shock of the decision, but truly - support and understand.

Much love!