You nailed it my beautiful friend.

And while yes I understand as you said the differences, you in no way minimized my feelings—you rather made me feel heard, understood…validated.

There’s a general “equalizer” that people assume all children will somehow pass through and when it’s delayed—or just veers off—yep it warrants attention and questions.

I congratulate you as a grandmom to both—and just as I hold onto hope for mine, I know you and your daughter too—will hang into hope for him. Sending you my biggest hug for him…

Thank you for lifting me up Jules—for encouraging me. I feel far from the best—but when dear friends who love me like you send me these messages, you empower me to keep going! There’s just no price on that.

All my love!!💜🩷💜