You did explain that well and it really was insightful - I just had no idea!!

I have to share that for the rest of the day - it stuck with me how while some kids may survive a divorce and do well, it can mean a devastating reality to others...ugh - we just never know, and why I really wish people would stop forcing women to think they have to parent or have to be mothers -- the impact of bringing a child into circumstances that leave them abandoned or in abuse leaves devastating consequences for years to come. Thanks for sharing - I hope people will see all the lessons in your story for all of us to learn from.

More importantly - I'm glad you're in a good place Monica. Keep well and do love yourself for how far you've come and all you're doing!