You deliver the best laughs everytime! LOL...

Tell them next time please that they all need to buy life insurance so that when their own children coming looking for their houses they'll have something to leave behind ;-)....

in all seriousness -- I've seen far too many families torn apart. It would be incredibly helpful to have them all bring casseroles on the very same day, and tell them all: whatever I decided in my will is my last will and I don't want anyone fighting over it nor wondering who manipulated me (believe me, I've seen it all) -- the clearer the parent is with all left behind, the easier it is for the surviving descedants to not fill in the blanks with fake what-ifs.

I have three sons...and knowing that death knows no age -- I've already told them -- it gets split down the three period.

If we change that in the future -- I will let them know....

clarity wins every time!

Enjoy the food and snacks -- sounds yum!!!

Entertaining read as always -- I hope your children and grandchildren are instead asking you: how did you do this? Can you teach me how to make better financial decisions to retire comfortably as you have? ---that right there: priceless info!!!! ;-)