What a touching article Nour—thanks for sharing about your father and your relationship and how it evolved. Powerful story.

I used to spend a lot of time with pessimist—I wanted to help change their perspective, and while I learned to be a better listener….it 100% drained me.

Timing and granting ourselves time to rejuvenate —as you alluded is necessary….

I had an aunt like that—and I had to sometimes take a break. But yes it’s from pain and trauma….sad—though.
What keeps their reputation is that it’s so hard for them to leave that mindset and change it for good…which is frustrating when we love them so much.

Thought provoking and great essay to help unite us and keep us all more balanced…thanks for sharing!!!💗💗💗