There will always be one very close friend who just dropped the communication line years ago, I'm talking over 15 years; ever so often, I'll grieve the loss and have a pissed off party about how immature the person was to not be honest. This is what this line reminded me of; being truthful and sharing why a person needs to leave a relationship is not just for romantic relationships. This person was loved like a brother and I don't use that relationship lightly. Human hate "gaps" -- fellow humans:

Fill in that gap - no matter the pain.

It creates closure and ability to move forward so much easier.

Mai, just want to share how wonderful this piece is. You write as though you've been here for ages -- in fact, you are making Jason look horrible! 😜 (tell him I said that)....JK

Wishing you the best -- he has represented your family so well and I wish you both continuous joy sharing your stories here in Medium.

Great first article! Bravo!!