The undercurrent of his message felt that way, but I couldn't put my finger on it...and I had to be careful in case my son left out missing parts of their talk?...

Thanks for listening Joe and for the encouraging and generous comment to me and my family...one that has made their fair share of mistakes too. My kids are older - it's funny you figure things out and you only wish you had "this wisdom" when you first start out as a parent - not realizing we were but kids ourselves in many ways! ;-)

Much gratitude to you my friend!