Thanks for inviting us to this dialogue—very reflective. I would share—I can’t keep secrets. And I think no matter how much we want others to act normally—it’s a grieving in the moment you find out and then when it happens—
I think in a way it’s sometimes best to not know when it’s our time.

But it’s also a gift to know and say and do everything you’d like to bc you knew…

Tough call.
Hard answers—
I love how you put this altogether.