Thank you so much Deb; I understand.
It's very kind of you to take the time to expand and provide examples.
I'm seeing the importance of the "self-reflection and author's voice" as you describe the difference between the two.
I'm putting this together with just the first two chapters I've read of Mary Karr's "Art of Memoir"...and it's making more sense.
Many thanks!!!
Have a beautiful weekend!!!!