Thank you for all you shared Nour; I laughed and I think you'll get a kick out of this, but when you said early on in the article, "without following no one" -- I was like, "WHAT?! NO way -- he has to follow me?!"
Lo and behold -- I scrolled to your posted pic --
0 followers! Daaanngggg dude -- that was a hard blow.
BUT -- my hats off to you because you took action that make us notice and value you.
I applaud you Nour -- I read intently to seek you advice. I will take longer than you -- but I intend to be here for the long haul and continue work to improve my writing.
Great post!