Shereen, you’re a gifted and entertaining poet…

Jokes aside—your concerns are valid and clarity brings so much peace—
Glad you vented—and wishing you a place where he begins to do his part.

Walking carefully with saying this but only because I know about it a lot and read a lot about it from my son and my students and family members…
Could your husband have adhd? Could it be he can’t handle the organization because of that and he’s never been diagnosed?

I could be 100% entirely wrong—just throwing an idea In CASE it fits.

Keep well and thanks for sharing your poem with us!!