Resounding yes.

People are so quick to give advice - but it's completely based on what they have lived, what they are capable of doing, and what they are willing to dish out. Others easily can and will do less or more. What seems clear as day to one - is dark as mud to another...

Your thoughts, the life you lead, and the rewards and consequences you face - ultimately will dictate your response. We can be inspired to do more or cut back depending on what others suggest, but always look to your own results and feelings to understand if it "fits" you.

The hard part: is being honest with ourselves if it fits or are we so conditioned to keep aiming for what someone else or societal pressures told us we should have/do?... I'm still working on that - no great answers for that one! ;-)

Much love...LOVE your poem - love the insights and questions it brings. You have a gift Sara - that is WITHOUT question.