Powerful essay, Ellen—had no idea you experienced such a devastating challenge….goes to show there are so many layers of life to all of us. Thanks for trusting us with this deeply personal story…I’m so sorry this happened to your dad.

I’ve tried to write about caring for another—albeit, different intent—but I struggle with it…so it’s shelved —maybe someday I’ll figure it out.

You taught us a lot through this…but mostly thanks for being here. Thanks for doing the hard work of healing and taking care of you—I think your dad is mightily proud and grateful for you too. 🌸