Oh wow, Kit. 😞My condolences on the passing of a friend...so soon, and sounds young.

See - this is the story that I would want to know how it unfolds. Only because - I think I know what I would want if I were that son.

It's indeed complicated. I understand some easily say, I don't want contact with my biological parent..but some do. The question I have is whose wish carries more weight: the parent wishing not to be contacted or the child who wants to know.

Not easy. I've always known people donate - but maybe it's because I never took the time to dwell on it and it surprises me. Maybe it's because I'm older? No clue.

Thanks for reaching and chatting with me - always enjoy engaging with you! More questions...but we need to wrestle with them.

Hope you're doing good!!!