Oh what an amazing piece Toya!! Although what is it that you write that can’t be classified at the minimum of amazing—-???!! Nothing!!!
What a touching piece and layered with a grown wisdom of acceptance and gratitude after living what for a time was a painful loss as a child….
Admire your attitude, spirit and just as you wrote: shift of focus to see it differently! So glad you’ve found your person who has been the amazing dad to your children—as you wanted for them.
Happy Father’s Day to your lovely husband—enjoy you two this special weekend!!