(Medium wouldn't let me highlight and respond to the "three" because"...)
Jus wanted to say: amazing introspection and wonderful honesty - with yourself! Painful but there's nothing like the sooner you learn, the less pain in future relationships!
He very much sounded like he was entirely consumed with himself - and I'm so happy you know you deserve to be happy!
Powerful stories for many young ladies who are in this exactly right now and hopefully this will wake them up!