Margie - I've retyped a line about four times, I just am battling with the right words...
and yet your writing and the message you wrote are just poignant - and they make it incredibly clear that most just don't even have a small understanding of what body shame is...
Kindest hug and love sent out to you and your sister...thank you for opening our eyes, and thank you for sharing your story. May we all be better for it...much kindness to you!