P.P.S. Iād like to end on a relevant funny note; John was going to come over one evening. I had a rough day and found myself particularly tired. To manage expectations I texted him: āJust want you to know, Iām exhausted so Iāll be turning in early. All I really want is to be tucked in bed.ā To which he promptly quipped: āWas that a typo?ā