Just last night when I was sharing in an online group about a particular belief/change I've had in me - and the person asked me: do you have regrets of feeling like I "missed out" in my past because who how I used to be/believe....
I told her - not really...
Later i had the same reflection you wrote here: without those past experiences/perspectives/experiences -- I wouldn't be who am I today....I can't dwell on what if's and should haves....
Loved your writing Jenny -- loved your message!
Keep being your amazing self!!!