Jessey, this is an excellent article. You really forced me to look back and realize the many ways I was shaped into focusing on boys and relationships...and recognize the signals I do see too presently in many women who simply do not place men/relationships as a priority or center of their life. I applaud this...and hopefully for men too - and if more of all of us are happy and know who we are, then the healthier relationships can be. Or so I hope!