I've been saying it for the last ...hmmmm...10 years -- whtether people get what they want or not, God wins:

if they got what they want -- well hooray

if they don't --God said they shouldn't

no matter what -- he wins.

I'll be honest --- I'll go on such a rage when it comes to home angry I am with religion, so I avoid until I learn how to best communicate....

All to say -- I get you -- totally.