I’m going to leave you with one more personal insight that I “think” rings true for many women:

When a man shows passion and drive to getting to know a woman he is interested in —there is something intrinsically attractive and sexy to it that I can’t put my finger on. Some may misinterpret this as I’m saying to “forego” her clear messages of saying, no (not at all)—but I feel safe you would understand what I’m trying to convey.

I think the same is true even for men. If, granted a few positive characteristics are present in a woman and she shows remarkable interest and willing to take the risk and show she’s madly in love with him—I sense men could find that attractive.

This is entirely a personal philosophy and I’d never publicize it as though it’s some law set in stone…but I feel it has some merit that I would share with a friend.

This is all shared to give you the additional push to go for it when you feel it deep in your guts 🙃😉🙌🏽👊🏽

PS a story: I have a close female friend who absolutely is madly in love with a guy that they “playfully hooked up with” over a year ago…she adores him. She has NEVER fully disclosed or even actively pursued a relationship that I know she’d love to have. She feels it would “scare” him away.

I’ve sat back and watched how the years go by. And I think: what has she to lose? She already doesn’t have him so why not risk it all? She has everything to gain…

BUT we are each different. I listen to her from time to time—she shares with me how other dates and other guys aren’t the one.

And I sit quietly in my thoughts…and I wish I could tell her: fight for the one you want! But that’s only a decision each person needs to make and then live with the consequences—which yes can be loss of a “friendship” or connection.

Awwww love and life—for the ages!!😉😂