I am so sorry for the pain and betrayal, regardless of how long - betrayal is perhaps one of the most painful emotions to feel.
You write with such a gift Marcia - I loved the story because of how you told it, but hated this story was nonfiction. Wish stories like these with pictures and names of the men could be published in a book or spreadsheet for all women to check....and in all fairness, the same for men with the women who use men.
It's awful.