Hi Carrie! Fun read - and quite frankly, you sound very reasonable and asking for what would make a very healthy relationship - you are not asking for much, and very much hope you find it!!!
(if I were single I would ask: are you for vaccines? and who did you vote for in 2016? 2020? ...π...'cause for some of us it just is a deal breaker and kinda the best filter anyway to know whether we are going to get along or if I'm going to bow out anytime soon! π)