Great article Bernie, enjoyed learning about your travails and the questions you posed to us... I get the conumdrum. I have a hard time answering that...it always took me four years to feel like a place became my new "homebase"...and yet I've never left a home/house that made me cry until the last one -- unique circumstances and it came unexpectedly that we sold. I was surprised by how it made me feel, for someone who moved so much.
For now -- home is where my husband, my love is...
Thanks for sharing with us!!!