Fanchon, it gets better over time: recognizing what you rather write….

— that you know how deep you’re willing to go is in and of itself a turning point.

It’s not easy and I would dare say sometimes even within a piece we battle how far and what’s too much. As much as we love Medium, this is a very public place and for as far wide as it can go with external reads, I think it’s important we make decisions of what we post with care and wise deliberation.

So good on you for still writing —you’re a skillful and engaging writer even with what you’re calling luke warm.

Keep up the great work! 🧡🧡🧡