Deb, first of all—you are a gem and incredibly strong, love and dream of a daughter that we ALL hope for. Sadly as you said—you do suffer tremendous consequences emotionally and physically. Your article paints the very real and harsh reality of what it means to care for someone who doesn’t want anymore or any better than being who they are in their chosen environment. I have to share your husband is another saint—not many Can claim to have spouses who would have helped with our aging parents as he did. I’m SO glad should have him at your side.
I know you dearly miss your daddy—on his good days I have no doubt he was the best! He may not have said it nearly or enough—but I have no doubt they are so grateful for you. You did more than all you could….and this article is the one many should read.
Thanks for opening up your heart. Must not have been an easy one to write.
Biggest hug!!