Barbara, I admire your willingness to look at it from different angles and even consider what if you’ve been seeing her in the wrong light?…I’m happy you have healed and are finding forgiveness and a way to have a relationship with her in the spirit world. I think there are even larger truth of what your mother suffered as a child that we don’t know and may also have impacted how you saw her if you knew more….regardless, thanks for trusting us with these lessons, that we all can learn from.
Keep well!