....anddddd that was my other draft that is not published, and I'm not confident enough to share: BUT M&Z -- you are 100% right! I'm trying...kinda, if I'm being honest - because all those sublinal messages that told me from the time I was a little girl that I was a little on the heavy side are just way too deep. Ugh -- I swear if I ever have a granddaughter - I've sworn, I will tell her every single day even if it's by letter, text or phone: You are beautiful exactly the way you are!!!!!!!!

You cracked me up about cheetos!!! ;-) Keep well dear friend(s)!