Ah--best comment ever!!!!!
đź’—Cat -- thank you.đź’—
That's brilliant: work from the no, to the possible yes's (rather than yes and think when it's no).
I really am going to try this as a way to train myself to see my life first and determine whether this request fits in; you made me realize I do the opposite. I'll oblige and then adjust my life to make that happen...in many ways, that is my life.
It would be revolutionary to change that.
What I love about this is that changing my perspective will be so much more effective at bringing change than working from the viewpoint that I've always used and "hope for change."
You should write about this Cat -- take any scenario, a conversation presented to you - how you respond...and an explanation of how this helped you.
I truly find it brilliant. Maybe it's just me -- but I THANK YOU!!!!
